Use zmq-anyio #2717

Job	Run time
test_docs	40s
check_release	1m 43s
link_check	3m 37s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 27s
Make SDist	44s
Test Lint	1m 8s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 46s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	2m 58s
Test Minimum Versions	20m 44s
Test Prereleases	2m 22s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	3m 34s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 41s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	15m 26s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	3m 22s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	16m 0s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	2m 50s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 15s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 33s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	3m 48s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	4m 15s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	4m 14s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 22s
coverage	0s
tests_check	2s
	2h 11m 31s

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