Use zmq-anyio #2683

Job	Run time
check_release	1m 46s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 30s
link_check	3m 37s
Make SDist	30s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 52s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	4m 54s
test_docs	46s
Test Lint	1m 11s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	5m 14s
Test Minimum Versions	20m 13s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	15m 43s
Test Prereleases	2m 25s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 47s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	6m 7s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	15m 45s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	3m 52s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 44s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	4m 3s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 20s
coverage	0s
tests_check	1s
	2h 7m 20s

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