Use zmq-anyio #2675

Job	Run time
Test Lint	1m 6s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	3m 26s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 23s
test_docs	45s
check_release	1m 45s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	3m 18s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	3m 18s
Test Minimum Versions	3m 26s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	3m 26s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	3m 28s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	3m 14s
link_check	3m 27s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	3m 27s
Make SDist	19s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	3m 28s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 13s
Test Prereleases	2m 3s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 25s
Install from SDist and Test	1m 54s
coverage	1s
tests_check	2s
	51m 54s

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